Hi there to those reading this. I'm not normally one to write a blog and let strangers read everything there is to know about my life. I'm also not this extremely outgoing person who makes friends with everyone and can talk to everyone. However, when i am comfortable in a situation and with people then i become quite outgoing and love having fun!
Before I had my daughter I was outgoing and would love being around people and groups. I never quite enjoyed a quite night in the house with a cup of tea and a movie... since having my daughter though, a cup of tea, my couch and a couple friends is what I get excited about! However, just because I enjoy my quiet nights doesn't mean it's not great to get out and get rowdy...
I am someone who doesn't enjoy drama of any sort but especially not drama that negatively affects those I love and cherish in my life. I am a firm believer that drama is for our high school years but once we leave we are meant to behave like adults. Adults who can communicate and talk things through without becoming nasty and without the need to try and out do another. Why can't we all just get along, accept others differences and then listen to the thoughts and ideas of others? I feel like this is such a simply task, yet we still have silly arguments that tear people apart for no good reason at all. RESPECT is simple. You don't have to like everyone, but you should at least respect them.
I enjoy my port, mainly field hockey, but i quite enjoy getting outside and getting active rather than sitting around not doing anything. I also love finding new coffee shops that haven't been explored, however the budget doesn't always allow for the spoils. I like to think I am an open book in most areas of my life but there are some that I am very private about and it takes a while for me to tell the on goings in those parts of my life.
I have come to a point in my life where I have decided I will always tell things as they are. I use to try and protect people from my true thoughts and instead would sugar coat the truth in a way that their feelings would be spared... I was a people pleaser when it came to family and those close to me. I was a huge believer that family is family and you should always cherish them because they are your blood. This quickly changed after I had my little girl. No I am a firm believer in "what you put into a relationship is what you will get out of it". What you invest into the relationships around you is what you will get out of them. If you only invest 20% into a relationship then never expect anything more or less than 20% back because what you get back will be your doing. Never over commit to those who never make time and never share their lives with you and never under commit to those who invest their time and efforts into your life.
I enjoy the simple things in life and would give up all the riches in the world to know those I love are safe and happy. It sounds very cheesy and cliche almost but it is the truth. Nothing is more important in this world than knowing you are loved and knowing you are thought of. I live my life by this and I try my best to uphold it.
I will post more information about myself for you to get to know me a little better as we go on this journey together, but if there is ever a question you are desperate to know the answer to then please get in contact with me and lets chat!
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